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Monday, February 8, 2010

SAHABAT

My friend email this nice words and I would like to reproduce it verbatim to share it with you...

Apabila kita ingin bersahabat, janganlah kerana kelebihannya
kerana mungkin dengan satu kelemahan
kita mungkin akan menjauhinya

Andai kita ingin berteman, janganlah kerana kebaikannya
kerana mungkin dengan satu keburukannya
kita akan membencinya

Andai kita inginkan seorang teman, janganlah kerana sifat cerianya
kerana andai dia tidak lagi pandai menceriakan
kita mungkin akan menyalahkannya.

Andai kita ingin sahabat yang satu, janganlah kerana ilmunya
kerana apabila dia buntu
kita mungin akan menfitnahnya

Andai kita ingin bersahabat
terimalah dia seadanya
kerana dia seorang sahabat
yang hanya manusia biasa

Jangan diharapkan terlalu sempurna
kerana kita sendiri pun tidak tahu
apakah diri kita sudah cukup sempurna
mengikut kehendak Allah SWT
yang sebenarnya....

Beserdahanalah dalam persahabatan
Kita tidak akan melihat kelemahan itu sebagai kelemahan...

To all my best friends, you know who you are and why I love you. Thanks for being with me through thick and thin, my joyful and pain...the colours of my life..

xoxo...


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1 comments:

Anonymous said...

The intention is good, but deep down i actually hate the clause 'terimalah seadanya'. It has been used as a defense mechanism way too much for my liking.
1. It's like saying this is your best self, and you're not gonna change, or evolve, or worse case, mutate. Coz i believe ppl do.
2. Allows room for deliberate mistakes, and used as an excuse. 'hey! This is who i am! Take it or leave it!'. I'd rather they say 'hey! I wana b this way!, coz it's a choice.
3. The context of the email is from the person to find friends, not the person to be a friend. U wana get best result, u do ur best n leave it to the Almighty 4 d outcome, not sederhana asal boleh aja. A twistd perceptn of qada' n qadar.
Maybe adding the golden rule, do unto others as u want others do unto would help. Or more recently, ikea's toilet has a sign that says pls leave the toilet as u want it to be found.
- raden putra

February 8, 2010 at 9:50 PM

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